Harlow and Oak

Harlow & Oak

The H&O Signature

We are planners with heart and a refined eye. Our signature style lives at the intersection of organic elegance and modern charm—layered neutrals, story-driven styling, and a deeply human approach to hospitality.

We proudly serve couples across North Carolina and the Southeast who crave design excellence and a kind, collaborative experience.

Design should tell your story—never overshadow it.
Planning should feel empowering, not overwhelming.
Communication is clear, timely, and grounded in kindness.
Your joy guides every timeline, decision, and detail that we plan.

✦ About Taryn

Founder, Harlow & Oak

With over a decade of luxury destination planning experience through her flagship firm, Taryn Stark Wyant Event Planning & Design (TSWED), Taryn brings a rare blend of editorial vision, logistical mastery, and grounded warmth to every event. Her work has taken her across the globe—from sweeping Hawaiian coastlines to historic estates—but her heart remains rooted in creating meaningful, tailored experiences for each couple she serves.

Taryn founded Harlow & Oak to bring that same white-glove sensibility to the North Carolina market—merging timeless design with seamless execution. Her calm confidence and deeply personal approach ensure that each celebration is both beautifully intentional and logistically effortless.

“Weddings are personal. They should feel like a reflection of each individual couple, not a performance.”
— Taryn Stark Wyant

✦ Our Team

Behind every Harlow & Oak wedding is a dedicated team who brings Taryn’s creative vision to life. Each team member shares a commitment to thoughtful service, precision, and excellence in execution:

  • Lead Event Coordinators: Local specialists with deep familiarity of NC venues and vendor networks—ensuring seamless logistics and reliable on-the-ground management.

  • Creative Assistants: Design-minded professionals helping to translate your vision into beautifully curated elements—from mood boards to day-of styling.

  • Hospitality Partners: On-site collaborators who elevate guest comfort and experience through discreet coordination and gracious presence.

Through intentional teamwork, every H&O celebration benefits from a calm, capable, and caring network—letting you be fully present in your joy.

Our Process

A thoughtful path from first call to final toast.

Our process is calm, clear, and designed to give you space to breathe. With thoughtful systems, open communication, and a strong sense of timing, we make wedding planning feel less like a juggling act—and more like a creative partnership. You’ll always know what’s next, who’s handling what, and when to simply enjoy the ride.

Listen & Align

We begin with a discovery call to understand your vision, priorities, and where you are in your planning journey.

Curate & Coordinate

From design boards to vendor timelines, we build a tailored planning path and handle all the moving parts—big and small.

Execute & Celebrate

As the day approaches, we fine-tune every detail so you can stay grounded, present, and fully immersed in your celebration.

Why Choose Harlow & Oak

Because how you plan your wedding matters as much as the day itself.

01

Rooted in North Carolina, Refined in Taste

With deep ties to Raleigh and the surrounding region, we blend local insight with an editorial eye—creating celebrations that are both personal and polished.

02

Calm, Clear, and Uncomplicated

We believe in beautiful simplicity. Our planning process is streamlined, our pricing is transparent, and our communication is always thoughtful and direct.

03

Design-Forward, Emotionally Grounded

From floral palettes to floorplans, we design with purpose. But our true focus? Creating space for you to feel joy, presence, and connection—on the day and throughout the journey.

Testimonials

What Our Clients Are Saying

Words from the hearts we’ve had the honor to plan alongside.

Taryn thought of everything and covered absolutely every aspect of our wedding. They had a beautiful and simple questionnaire for us, they talked to us over the phone, they coordinated with all our vendors. They made such a stressful process feel so easy! 
Michael + Anne
H&O helped us with Day Of Coordination and Month Of Coordination and they were THE BEST part of our wedding day —not exaggerating. We would not have gotten married without them.
April + Corey