Harlow and Oak

Wedding Planning & Design | North Carolina

HARLOW & OAK

Curating joyful, detail-driven celebrations rooted in the heart of North Carolina.

Editorial Taste

A refined, visually cohesive approach to styling and storytelling that reflects high-fashion aesthetics and purposeful design decisions.

Streamlined Planning

A simplified, efficient planning process that minimizes stress and maximizes clarity through expert guidance and thoughtfully organized workflows.

Southern Hospitality

A warm, gracious, and attentive client experience rooted in kindness, charm, and a deep commitment to making every guest feel genuinely cared for..

Meet Harlow & Oak

Weddings with Soul. Planning with Grace.

We believe that good planning is part intuition, part orchestration, and part design.
From Raleigh to the Blue Ridge, we help modern couples celebrate with intention—guiding every timeline, floral choice, and vendor partnership with care.

Wedding Planning

A boutique planning experience that prioritizes seamless logistics, heartfelt hospitality, and personalized guidance to bring each couple’s unique vision to life with grace and precision.

Theme and Design

A sophisticated blend of organic elegance and modern charm, H&O curates timeless event aesthetics that celebrate natural textures, layered neutrals, and intentional, story-driven details.

Planning Packages

We offer three thoughtfully built packages to meet you exactly where you are in your planning journey

Full Planning & Design

From concept to coordination

Partial Planning

For couples who’ve started and need a partner to finish

Event Management

For the detail-loving couple who just needs support tying it all together

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Why We’re Different

We balance modern elegance with human warmth.

Let’s make planning the best part of getting married.

Testimonials

What Our Clients Are Saying

I’ve always heard you need a coordinator. But now I KNOW you NEED a coordinator, but not just any coordinator, you need a fabulous coordinator that knows weddings, knows photography, directs crowds, and works hard.
Sydney + Phill
The communication was great, the flowers were beautiful, Taryn made sure the ceremony/procession ran smoothly.  If you want to plan a destination wedding, this is the way to do it!
Olivia + Lindsey
FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes! We serve all of North Carolina and frequently travel across the Southeast.

Absolutely. Let’s chat about what you need—we’ll build the right fit.

We book 10–14 months out for full planning, and 4–6 months for event management.

We have trusted relationships with top-tier vendors and venues, but we always welcome collaborating with your preferred partners to create a celebration that reflects your unique style and priorities.

Absolutely — we specialize in building realistic, customized budgets based on your priorities and vision, and we guide you through each decision with transparency and expert advice to ensure you stay aligned with your financial goals throughout the planning process.

H&O offers a boutique experience rooted in Southern warmth, elevated aesthetics, and meticulous organization—blending the polish of luxury events with the heartfelt charm of personalized service. We have 15+ years of experience through out sister company, Taryn Stark Wyant Event Planning and Design, that serves as the foundation from which we’re building. That level of expertise and experience is unparalleled.